If feeling inferior or in the habit of comparing oneself to others, just say "Bless ______ for being _____".
- do it for anyone you see for anything you might see in them that you wished you had
- can be a car, a job, a physical attribute, a girlfriend, anything
- then start doing it for everything else around that you wish u had...in blessing u are setting yourself up for getting.
Why does it work?
- i read it in a book
- the change in focus is huge...
- complimenting others even if they can't hear it is a form of giving that makes u feel good
- when focused to find good things of them, you start to focus on things that are good about everything around you, including yourself
- it changes your focus from your flaws to their successes...instead of looking down on yourself, u are complimenting them.
- It focuses you on what u are jealous of...turns a subjective overall jealousy to a pinpointed objective thing
- allows you to see that its a certain thing (that might be possible to achieve in the future) and not an overall thing that i can never attain
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